I wasn’t loving my content anymore. This is why | Note from Self week 22

Are you in creating your dream life mode – or are you in an era of building the foundation for your dream life?

I know I talk about creating your dream life, and to be honest I haven’t been loving my own content, especially on Instagram lately. 

I realized the other day that it was because I was still in a period of rebuilding the foundation of my life. The one that the dream is built on. 

Yes, a simple life in my house in the countryside is a part of the dream for me. 

But it’s not the thing that lights me up. So talking about it doesn’t quite excite me as much as talking about my actual dream does (I’ll get to that in a moment, I promise.)

My house on the countryside is something to have. 

It’s not what I love to do. 

It’s not what I’m here for to be. 


🌻 I hit a significant milestone – and I believe you need to hear this

The last few days have marked a significant milestone: I’m done with the foundation of my dream life. 

How do I know? Because I suddenly received what you might call a download of what the next steps are. 

Crystal clear, in detail, very realistic and very doable. Not the type of vision that feels like this beautiful but overwhelming mirage that you’d love to see actualized in your life but simply don’t know how to bring about. 

After being very tired and resting for most of the day, I suddenly found myself sitting at the kitchen table and typing it all up: what I have to share with the world in this next chapter of my life. 

It’s the thing that has lit me up since the first time I came into contact with it, or rather it’s the merging of two things that the world desperately needs right now, and that I could go on talking about forever:

Business building and 

spiritual and personal growth. 


🌻 Your dream is no coincidence – it’s what the world needs right now

The world especially needs spiritual and highly sensitive people to start building businesses. Because the way most businesses (aka workplaces) are built right now is simply not made for humans to thrive. The world needs businesses that are built around people’s needs. 

Who could do this better than those of us who are acutely aware of our own and others‘ needs, and who are neither willing nor able to go against them?

So it’s no coincidence that following your dream of creating a life on your terms will lead you to building a business. Which is a path of personal growth mastery that hardly any of us are aware of when we decide to get into it. 

And many of the teachings around conscious business building, especially in the manifestation and mindset community, are misleading and trying to sell us on the idea that it’s easy. Which it absolutely is not. 

🌻 The spiritual business mindset community is nuts – there I said it

The notion that it was supposed to be easy had me gaslit to the point that I couldn’t see how what felt like constant failure to me was actually a very healthy and natural progression of my path of mastering the art of running a business. That I wasn’t doing anything wrong – that I was learning. And that I was actually successful. 

In fact, it was only after a major shift in my relationship to my own self-worth, that I could recognize the success that I had had all along. That just went by unrecognized by me because I was hung up on all the things that I thought went wrong. That I thought I did wrong. 

Like the fact that I’m actually good at sales. 

At being able to communicate what people get out of working with me. (And deliver that.)

At being able to build genuine connection with potential clients in a way that doesn’t make me or them feel uncomfortable. 

At being able to charge high value prices. 

And all of this without having a huge following on social media. 

🌻 I was finally able to see what I should have shared with you all along

The price point of the first online course I created was EUR 1.200. At that time I wasn’t familiar with the concept that you should have a so-called low ticket entry offer. Oops. Sold it anyways. With less than 300 followers on Instagram. 

I‘m one of those gazillion ideas all the time people, so of course I’ve had a bunch of different business ideas and offers. Photography, websites, branding, crystal healing, energetic work, coachings. I’ve sold offers in every single one of these categories. Something you allegedly can’t do, if you listen to the “focus on your niche” coaches. Oops, my bad, did it anyways. 

I hate those sleazy DMs from coaches trying to get me to buy whatever it is they have to offer. So I created a way of reaching out to people that actually feels aligned for me and where almost every single person I wrote to ended up working with me. 

🌻 So, I guess the TLDR is:

I’m finally done trying to grow the large following that my low self-worth thought I needed to have in order to be allowed to talk about my favorite subject in the world. To share my business building insights as a highly sensitive spiritual being. 

I’m done only seeing all the things I haven’t figured out yet and making that my excuse why I’m not sharing what I have mastered. 

I’m finally willing to see the value in what I’ve created already. 

I’m here to share what I know. And to be honest: have known for a while. 

Not the here to talk to you about 10k months or how to gain 152.790 followers in a day. 


🌻 What you can expect from me

Here to share what I know about building a business when you are the only one who can see your vision. When you still have a 9 to 5 that takes up a lot of your energy. Maybe paired with just regular family life that you love but that has you busy for most of the day. Maybe a relationship that is dragging you down and taking up even more of your energy. 

Here to share what I know about how to sell as someone who is inexperienced and uncomfortable with pretty much all of the currently taught sales techniques. (I do not come from a family lineage of entrepreneurs – my family line has been team safe employment, working for someone else Monday through Friday.)

Here to help you get out of the collective gaslight that this is supposed to be easy, and that there’s something wrong with you if you don’t shift into millionaire mindset with only dream clients who gladly hand over any amount of money while you’re asleep – if only you can imagine and feel it. 

🌻 My wish for you

And nothing would please me more than one person reading this and unsubscribing to the idea that you can only be an expert if you have a large audience. 

It’s the other way around: you already are the expert at your thing – you will be seen by the right (!) audience by dedicating yourself to sharing your expertise. 

And by dedicating yourself to the mastery of the entrepreneurial path. 
 

I’m in. Are you with me?

And just out of curiosity: what is your thing? The thing that you think you need to get xyz right first in order to be able to share with the world? Would love to hear. Just comment below and share, plz. 🤗